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Fear of Success

Why would anybody have a fear of success?

Good question.

People think of success in different ways. Some people see it as something they want to attain, and others think it is something they will never attain.

Is that the difference between the glass have full or glass half empty people?

Let’s take a look at why people might have a fear of success.

Fear of Success Means Change

We go through life thinking that we go to school, get a good job, get paid, maybe get a raise or a promotion every now and then, and then retire. That’s what life has in store for us.

Or, that’s what we’ve been conditioned to believe.

Many people are okay with that.

But what if you’re not?

You have dreams and aspirations to do something bigger, better.

You know you were meant to be someone different.

You want to control your own destiny.

Well, good for you!

But, that will mean change, and lots of it.

That’s where the fear of success starts to set it.

Usually, it’s subconscious.

I’m not good enough. I don’t know how. Thoughts like that.

Change them.

Uproot your negative concerns or tasks, one by one. Don’t be overwhelmed by the whole lot.

Learn to celebrate each little win along the way.

Change how you think, who you hang out with, what you read.

Stop watching the news. Stop doing the same things over and over. Stop beating yourself up.

You can do whatever you set out to do.

But, it will require constant change, and you’ll learn to thrive on it.

Meet Your Fear of Success Head On

You’ve probably done this at work, or maybe for a fitness program, or some other aspect of your life, but the first thing you need to do is set goals. And, set them in a way that will give you the right mindset to succeed.

For example:

Bad Goal: I need to quit smoking
Good Goal: I want to be a non-smoker

Result – Instead of thinking about why you need to quit, visualize yourself not smoking, and feeling and looking better.

Bad Goal: I have to lose weight
Good Goal: I will develop good and healthy eating habits

Result – By working at changing the bad habits that made you overweight, you’ll reward yourself by fitting into smaller clothes, and feeling good about yourself.

Bad Goal: I want to make some money
Good Goal: I will become successful by building my own online business

Results – Just wanting to make money is not a goal, it is an end result. Committing yourself to building a business will make you a stronger person overall, and you’ll definitely make money along the way.

Start with a long term goal, and then break it down into short and medium term goals. You know, what you will accomplish in six months, this month, and this week.

Think positive.

Say Goodbye to Your Fear of Success

People tend to want to do something, and then talk themselves out of it, because they think they can’t do it, or they think it’s too hard. Anything worth having, is worth working for, or fighting for.

Don’t let that little voice in your head, or the little devil on your shoulder convince you that you can’t do something. Flick them off your shoulder, and take charge of killing your fear of success.


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Customer Engagement Strategies

The new world of digital marketing revolves around customer engagement strategies. This has become more prominent with the growth of social media networks. Social marketing evolved because people started talking ‘with’ their customers instead of ‘to’ their customers.

Social media has benefited the customer more because they have a say in what is being ‘pitched’ to them, or how they perceive a brand, or how they want to improve their buying experience.

And then there is the power of the inbox (Refer to previous post). Your prospect or customer’s inbox is a valuable opportunity to focus your customer engagement strategies. It’s a focused media to ask questions, and entice people to share your message.

Building Your Brand

If you put one toe in the internet waters, you’ve started to create your brand – whether you’re big business, or a home business owner. Being aware of your brand before you build your customer engagement strategies.

It starts with first impressions and ends with the last interaction. So, clean yourself up. Good first impressions are essential to a successful relationship with your prospects.

Learn how to tell your story and get good at telling it. Build an inviting brand personality, and your customer engagement strategies will be more impactful.

- People will look to you for info. They’ll think you’re the guru.
- Be the leader. Show them the way.
- Be of service. Distill info for your reader and make a mole hill out of a mountain.

There are oodles of personal branding books. Start with Brand You, or Me 2.0, and you can’t go wrong.

Customer Engagement Strategies to Build your Brand

The latest buzz words in the online marketing space are about engaging your customers. Look at these words, and what does your mind conjure up?

  • Testimonials
  • Ads
  • Market Research
  • Customer Relations
  • Build Authority
  • Brand evangelism
  • Fans
  • Scoop the Competition
  • Community
  • Word of mouth
  • Drive online interaction
  • Fan & Customer Recognition

The words indicate benefits to your brand. Build your customer engagement strategies with these concepts in mind. If you engage your customers in just the right way, they will spread the word, be happy to talk about your brand.

Give them something to talk about, and recognize and reward them for it.

Be The Belle of The Social Media Ball

Or if you’re a guy, be that guy that everyone wants to be around – the one that listens and makes you feel important.

Social media is like a big cocktail party. You don’t like to be sold to at a party, right? You wouldn’t show up at a party and start signing up people to your newsletter, would you?

Then don’t do that in social media.

Social Media Party Tips
(for when you are engaged or interacting on social sites, even blog and forum comments)

  • Listen first, then respond
  • Be brief, be brilliant, and be gone
  • Work the room
  • Don’t sell

Think about how you can:

  • better serve your community
  • add value to a conversation (without selling)

…and hopefully one of your followers will share and recommend.

Customer Engagement Strategies Means Respect

Just like Aretha Franklin … R-E-S-P-E-C-T that is what it means to me.

Respect your audience, whether it’s a prospect or someone that is already a customer. Treat them like you’d like to be treated.

I love social and email marketing for that sheer opportunity to build relationships, long lasting relationships. It’s fun, rewarding, and heck, it can even be lucrative.

Consider how you ‘socialize’ or use email marketing, when building your customer relationship strategies.

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Chris Brogan
Chris Brogan Speech
- Part 2

Yesterday, I wrote about the Chris Brogan speech I heard at the Social Media Camp in Victoria. There was so much information crammed into an hour, I had to make two posts about it.

This one focuses on Chris’s latest passion, email marketing.

“The best social media app is your inbox.” – Chris Brogan


I’ve learned a lot about this lately, so Chris is certainly not having an epiphany, but what he does do well, is put things into simple, common sense terms.

Essentially, we have been led to believe that social networks are the best way to share information and reach our customers.

Think again.

Email is still much more targeted.

Chris Brogan Explains Power of The Inbox

When you forward email from your inbox, you forward it to people that matter to you, to people that you think will benefit from the information. In Facebook, or Google+, who sees your post is totally random.

  • Email should come from a real address, not a ‘do not reply’ address.
  • Do not have a link to “click here to view in browser”
  • Always use an email service, don’t rely on Gmail or something similar
    (try Aweber, Constant Contact, MailChimp, or similar)
    includes metrics, list management, and they typically have good relationships with the spam police

Chris Brogan & Writing That Email

When you create an email, write it like you are writing to “one person”. Reach out and connect. Act like a person, and not a company.

Echo – people need to hear a bit about their own story and they’ll relate.
Brevity – don’t ramble, and put the most important part at the top.
Trust – make yourself available

People’s time is precious, so make your email stand out, and make it count.

“Our Inbox is our most trusted asset.” – Chris Brogan

Snappy Subject Lines and Branding

Someone may not open your emails all the time, especially if they subscribe to your newsletter, or other regularly scheduled blasts. It just slides down the inbox as they scroll.

But, they will continue to see your name, and your subject line as they browse through their inbox.

This repetition keeps your brand in your audience’s presence.
Just don’t spam people. Be respectful.

Simplify Your Signature

I’m sure you are familiar with those email signatures, that have about 20 lines of text and links and numbers, and you don’t even know what to look at. People are typically trying to make it easier for you to get a hold of them, sort of a customer service mentality.

But this is what really happens.

When you create the massive signature, you totally take away from your message. It’s like having an anchor that drags your message into oblivion. People get lost, forget what they read, and move on.

It’s a well known fact that if you give people two choices, they can’t make a decision.

When you end your email, have only one call to action, or even just ask a question. Just one thing. Keep it simple and inviting.

If they want to find you on all your social networks, they will find you, or click on your social icons on your website.

Thank You Chris Brogan

My posts are really just snippets of what Chris spoke about, but I can only take so many notes ;) .

Thanks to Chris Brogan for continuing to serve the blogging and internet community. His commitment to helping others in their online ventures is admirable, and so very much appreciated.

I look forward to checking out his new book scheduled to come out in October. You can reserve The Impact Equation on Amazon.

Have a look at Part I of my Chris Brogan experience.

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Chris Brogan Speech Review – Part One

This past weekend, I attended the 2-day Social Media Camp in Victoria, BC, and was very excited to hear Chris Brogan as the keynote speaker. I’d been warned by others that had heard him speak that he may not deliver what you expect.

So, I just had no expectations. But, I was pleasantly relieved to hear a very personal and relevant speech for the audience at hand. The room was full of social media types from all types of business. He certainly touched on a few cords that would have been relevant to each person in the audience.

Why Listen to Chris Brogan

Chris Brogan is a New York Times bestselling author, a professional speaker, a strategic advisor to mid and large sized companies, plus a blogger and creative producer. His popular blog, chrisbrogan.com, is in the Top 5 of the Advertising Age Power150.

He is a key influencer in how people do business online using social media and good old sales and customer service strategies.

Chris Brogan Promotes Google+

Some of the meat of Chris’s speech was about Google+ and how it stands out as a social network and why it is in it’s early stages of growth.

Google Plus is not a network like Facebook, which is mostly your old friends and family, it’s a place where people connect through common interests. It really becomes your network, and not just a place where you are a member.

Following is not the goal, interaction is. We should be connecting.

You can see that Facebook is just set up for advertising. Google+, however, is part of the huge network of other Google products. Depending on who might be in your Google+ Circles, and therefore your circle of influence, your content rankings in Google’s search engine will be affected – in a good way.

Chris Brogan and ‘Impact Equation’

Coming out in October is Brogan’s new book, authored with Julien Smith. It’s called ‘Impact Equation’. He partially described an acronym for the word Create, that is spelled out further in the book.

C is for Contrast – With so much noise online, you need to be seen as a contrast, whether it’s humour, or sweetness, or being profound. Maybe you’re just completely whacky.

R is for Reach – You have the opportunity to get your message to a lot of people. Facebook and Linkedin are closed – invite only. Google Plus can take you further.

E is for Echo – People need to hear an idea that they feel they can make their own. Try to get people to say they’ve had the same idea before.

A is for Articulation – Be brief. The short form is alive and well. There is too much fluff in the world. Provide world changing thought leadership, but tell it to me like I’m a six year old.

T is for Trust – communications with prospects and customers today, is about growing and nurturing, it’s not about making money.

E is for ??? – Chris stumbled on the last E, saying he forgot. Or was it a ploy to get us to buy the book ;) ? I’m pretty sure he doesn’t work that way.

Chris Brogan Is An Influencer

If you didn’t know who Chris Brogan was, I think you would have found his speech somewhat scattered. But with a room full of social media geeks, I believe we all found great value in nitty gritty details and lofty cerebral musings – whether you agreed with them or not.

The man has his pulse connected to the online world and how we work and live in it. Chris Brogan is also now providing a lot of focus for small and home business entrepreneurs, and not just the big and mighty corporations that he is trying to make more human.

With intelligent humour and influential wisdom to pay attention to, I deem this Brogan presentation a success.

You can pre-order The Impact Equation
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Entrepreneur Skills

Whether you are new to the home business game, or a seasoned veteran, the most important entrepreneur skills you need to develop are those of a leader.

To be successful, you have to be seen as a leader. You have to show up as a leader.

I know what you’re thinking. I work in my home. I have no employees. Why do I need to be a leader?

People seek out leaders, that’s why. They like to listen to those in authority, take direction from someone they perceive as credible, and want to be associated with someone that is successful.

Develop yourself as a leader of people, and you will grow your business, but more importantly, you will personally grow.

Entrepreneur Skills for Leaders

To get you started, here are five things that leaders do every day.

Visualize Your Goals
Picture yourself achieving the goals you have set for yourself. Can you see yourself driving a fancy, new car? Can you see your bank statement showing your six figure earnings? Can you see yourself travelling around the globe, whenever you want?

Be conscious of your goals to motivate you to reach your success. Whatever your dreams and goals are, stop and visualize what they look like, every day.

Perform Revenue Generating Activities
Unless you are marketing your products and services, you won’t make any money. Pretty straight forward. You need to do something to drive traffic to your website or store front.
You can place ads, write articles or blogs, set up social media posts, talk to your customers, whatever it is, it is paramount that you do something daily.

Mastermind With Other Leaders
Surround yourself with like-minded people that are also leaders, positive thinkers, and success driven. Improve your entrepreneur skills by modelling them.

Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich, first defined the mastermind as a “coordination of knowledge and effort, in a spirit of harmony, between two or more people, for the attainment of a definite purpose.”

Look to mentors, people you admire, people who have helped you, people you’d like to be like. Get on conference calls, webinars, and listen to successful people. Join in on conversations on blog comments, or on forums. Find an individual or group that you can chat with, and can make you accountable for your actions.

Develop You
Personal Development should be an ongoing habit. Learn about business. Learn about yourself. Learn about anything. Always be a student.

Every day, you need to take some time to either read books, listen to audio recordings, or attend live events. When people see how you approach your own self improvement, they will want to be a leader just like you.

Cultivate the Expectation of Leadership
Believe you are the leader. Be the leader. Do what leaders do. There is no school, or graduation to achieving leadership. It’s an attitude and a way of life, personally and in business. Show up as the leader and people will recognize you as one.

Conclusion…Entrepreneur Skills For Life
Being an entrepreneur is a way of life. It’s not a job. You will find more fulfillment in learning and growing your entrepreneur skills, every day, for years to come.

Incorporate these five activities daily and you will rise as a leader, build your business organically, and be proud of how you grow personally.

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